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The Myth of Leadership Indecision.


All Christian Leaders are decisive.



Why is this a myth? Why is it that all Christian Leaders are not decisive, when they should be?

The simple reason is that congregations expect their leaders to be decisive, it indicates being in control. That those who lead us know what they are talking about. A Christian Leader being decisive creates an atmosphere of clarity and focus for those that follow. However the myth becomes apparent when we mix decisiveness up with indecision.

Most Christian leaders would consider themselves to be decisive, because in reality they would consider that only they have the right answers. The problem isn't that they are indecisive the problem is that often they lack the ability to make a decision or even make the right decision.  In essence, in order for Christian Leaders to be great decisive leaders, they have to learn to be great decision makers first.

Decisiveness doesn't mean making all the decisions all of the time, this is just being a control freak. The secret to being great decisive leader, is being a great decision maker and making the right decision.

Here are some helpful hints on decision making that can help you be a great decisive Christian Leader:

Life experience (that EQ thing again) will help you see and recognise the patterns. When it comes to making a decision then rely on what life has taught you before, remember, there is nothing new under the sun. Look back through your past experience for the answer (pattern). Trust yourself.

Be consistent with the values and culture that you have laid down in your church, trust your leaders to express and follow this DNA. In moments of uncertainty, trust your strategy, your values and culture will guide you.

Gather as much information as you can, always use the evidence of the facts before you to guide your decision. Never try to conjure up evidence to fit your decision.


Ask yourself why this decision matters, you cannot be decisive if you don't know the answer to this. Look at the decision through the eyes of your team and try to see what they see and hear. Often your team has a better handle on it than you do, don't be afraid of going down their route.

Be action based, make sure your decisiveness is decision based and is taking people somewhere.

Lastly never make a decision out of context, always be willing to explain yourself and present what the alternatives would or could have been. This doesn't diminish you as a Christian Leader it shows those that follow you that you have thought through the issues and show your willingness to communicate your decision. This is being decisive.

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