This weeks ramblings.
I heard this week of another Pastor, of a large church,
being dismissed for moral transgressions – that is just ‘church speak’ for he
committed adultery. When I heard this my mind immediately went to the song by the
rock band Queen:
“Another one’s gone,
Another one’s gone,
Another one bites the dust”.
I think the devil sings this song every time a Minister,
Pastor or Christian Leader leaves the ministry, in disgrace, for this sort of
thing. It leaves me sad and upset and even a little angry, that people could so
easily throw away their calling and ministry.
Proverbs 4:23 tells us to guard our hearts. Proverbs 5 tells
us what will happen when we lack discipline and Ephesians 6 tells us to take a
stand, to stand firm and to keep praying in the spirit.
Being the Christian Leader of any church representing Jesus
Christ, is an awesome responsibility. For those fortunate to lead such a church
there is a high calling and an even higher standard by which they are held.
With this great responsibility comes power and authority. People by their very
nature are drawn to this.
These moral transgressions- the old fashioned word is sins, can happen to any human person, this is true. But for those of us who represent Jesus, we are held to the higher standard as I mention above. So how can we help each other? How can we help to be part of a solution rather than another dismal, shallow and unpalatable statistic?
These are complex issues and needs detailed discussion but as
part of a conversation starter I would propose the following:
Every large church should appoint a father of the house and
that on issues of morals and spirituality the leader of the church should be
answerable. This father of the house should have access to the leader at all
times and they should act as a “confessor” to that leader. Should they see
anything in the course of their meetings, that raisers concern, they would have
the right to step in and firstly point it out to the leader, if it persists
then it is brought to the attention of the wider leadership.
Obviously there would have to be clear boundaries and a very
detailed job description laid out of what the “father of the house/confessor
can and cannot do. There would have to be complete trust between the two. Would
this stop a misuse of power and authority would it prevent what may go on
behind closed doors? Possibly not, but it may go a long way of ensuring that
things are done in the light and maintaining a standard of spiritual and moral
discipline.
Food for thought.

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